4085. Robert Southey to Ebenezer Elliott, 9 November 1823
Address: To/ E. Elliott Esqre/ Burgess Street/ Sheffield
Stamped: BAKEWELL/ 152
MS: Sheffield Archives, MD2191/28. ALS; 3p.
Previously published: E. R. Seary, ‘Robert Southey and Ebenezer Elliott: Some New Southey Letters’, Review of English Studies, 15 (October 1939), 416–417.
I thought so much of you after we parted last night that I will not go to bed again without saying something to you both concerning your son,
& your own state of mind.
If your sons abilities are above the common standard, & you can rely upon him for diligence & prudence, the best x course which could be chosen for him is to place him at one of the Universities, with a view to his gaining a fellowship. With good abilities & good conduct the way would be plain before him, & if that step were gained, he becomes immediately independent, the means of fortune are within his reach, & his advancement in life would depend less upon accident or patronage than upon his own exertions & desert. What nature has done for him, you are well able to judge, & also to x judge whether his possesses the disposition is such as would lead him to xx employ his talents to the best account. Diligence, regularity, & that spirit of just frugality without which there can be no independence, are indispensable to his success in this career, – as they are indeed to his happiness in any.
The next point is – what are his acquirements? how far has he advanced? & at what school has he been placed. Eighteen is a good age for going to college, – & a great deal may be done in two years. – The choice between Oxford or Cambridge would depend in a great degree upon his aptitude for mathematics.
– I will enquire at both, find out what helps can be obtained there, & if you determine upon sending him there, I will use my best endeavours to secure something for him in time, – that is, the promise of it. And at either University I will recommend him to some persons who if any good offices should be in their power will gladly render them.
A word now concerning your own state of mind. In the point of difference between you, Mrs E.
is right. You have past from one extreme to another, & will rest when you are in the right mean between them. Unitarianism is not tenable ground. There are books which would demonstrate this to you, but I am not sure that it is not better & easier for you to discover this yourself, & this you will infallibly do, if you read the scriptures. I will tell <you> what the way of reading them, which I have found most profitable in my own progress, – that of duly taking the psalms & lessons of the day.
In so doing it is delightful to perceive how the system of revelation unfolds itself. At every fresh perusal you will find & feel the force & importance of some passages & texts which you had not previously observed, – & it cannot be long before you will say with St Thomas – My Lord & my God!”
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Meantime do not disquiet yourself, nor be disquieted upon this subject. You are in the right way. No one ever yet who sought for the truth with humility & sincerity of heart, failed to find it.
I shall be glad to hear your estimate of your sons character, – & interested in any thing you may tell me concerning your family & yourself. If you write within before Thursday next, direct to me at Sir George Beaumont’s Xxxx Xxxxxxxx Cole Orton Hall, Ashby de la Zouch. – afterwards at No 15 Queen Anne Street – Cavendish Square London –
God bless you
Yrs with sincere regard
Robert Southey